Bad Boyfriend

Dear Dallas,
I have a terrible problem. I have a boyfriend, and I really like him. The thing is, he is all sugar and spice to me around all of his friends, but when all of his friends are gone, he ditches me for another girl!!! At least, that's what I think. I've seen him talking to her in the hallway. Should I break up with him, or just pretend like I haven't noticed anything?

Sincerely,
Bad Boyfriend

Dear Bad Boyfriend,
If I were you, I would confront him on what you think he is doing. If he says he wasn't doing it, then keep a close eye on him and if you do see him do it, then tell him again. If he says he didn't do it again, then dump him then and there. If he tells you that he was, then tell him if he does it again that it will be over between the two of you, and mean it. Also, if you just don't feel a connection, then break up with him saying you two can still be friends. Tell him the reasons why.

Sincerely,
Dallas

Dear Readers,
If you are wondering how to e-mail me your problems, then here's your answer. E-mail me at dlittlered11@yahoo.com, and I will try to answer and publish it as soon as possible.

Sincerely,
Dallas

DKWTG

Dear Dallas,
My parents are getting divorced and I get to choose who I stay with. My mom ignores me and my VERY annoying brother is going to stay with my dad. Also, my dad smokes WAY to much and I have a hard time being around all the smoke. Who should I choose? My gut tells me to go with my dad, but my heart says my mom. HELP!
Sincerely,
Don't Know Where to go

Dear DKWTG,
I have to say that my parents are not divorced so I am not in the same boat as you, but I'm pretty sure I can help. If I were you I would choose your dad and here are my reasons. I know that you want to be with a woman and your dad smokes, but if your mom ignores you and your dad gives you more attention, then I would go with your dad because I would want to feel like I mattered. Also, I can understand how your brother can be annoying because I also have a brother, but after a while your probably going to miss him. I hope after reading this you can make up your mind.
Sincerely,
Dallas

P.S. If you decide to choose your dad and you need a woman to talk to, then going to a woman school counselor or a woman you trust might help you get things off of your chest.

Bullied Around

Dear Dallas,
I am having a little trouble with the bully at my school and I don't know what to do about it. Everyday at lunch time she steals my turkey sandwich and rice crispy treat and I'm afraid that if I tell my mom she'll pull me out of school and home school me. What should I do?
Sincerely,
Bullied Around

Dear Bullied Around,
First off, I am home schooled and it's not as bad as it seems. Second of all, if you don't want to be home schooled then tell your mom that you want to stay in school no matter what. Last, if you refuse to go to your mom, then try going to either your teacher, principal or the school counselor. I hope this helps.

Sincerely,
Dallas

Confused Crusher

Dear Dallas,
There's this boy that goes to my school and I really like him but I don't know if he likes me. How can you tell when a guy likes you or not.
Sincerely,
Confused Crusher

Dear Confused Crusher,
There are three steps on how to see if a guy likes you or not. The first step is to know how many years apart in age you and the guy are. If the guy is more than two years older than you, likely chances are he probably won't have a crush on you. The second step is to flirt with him. The third and last step is to see if he flirts back or not. If he does, likely chances are that he has a crush on you. If he doesn't then you know he probably doesn't have a crush on you and you should just try to be friends.

Sincerely,
Dallas